Healing is about Focus.
Anyone with a sincere and honest desire to heal will find what they’re looking for- but you must approach the threshold in the right way. You must be focused in the right direction.
What is the right way you ask? What is the right focus? What does a ‘sincere and honest desire to heal’ mean?
The ego must experience a certain level of ‘ego death’ in order to be ready to heal. The ego is the one who resists healing and doesn’t want you to awaken to the truth of who you really are. To do that would require certain ego death and the ego always fights to assert and maintain dominion. The ego is an imposter, created to deal with the trauma of being born into a sick society. This trauma hijacks your mind and convinces you that it's you! Not until we’ve built up sufficient presence power as our True Self will we be ready to let go of the false self imposter.
Consider this: The Cure Already Exists.
In the rain forest the natives say that if you can find a plant that is poison, within the same 2-3 mile radius, you will always find it’s antidote. This is how the intelligence of nature works. It is always so. Solutions abound and they’re usually staring us right in the face. It’s not for lack of a cure that we stay sick, it has more to do with identity and belief, resistance and attachments, that hold us back.
I have recovered from things that people have told me are impossible to cure. I suffered with seasonal allergies for years that became so debilitating that I HAD to find a solution. I couldn't live that way and I wouldn't resign myself to accepting feeling that horrible everyday. I'm so glad I didn't because today I live allergy free and feel great. Once I no longer had to deal with all that, I told all my allergy suffering friends the good news- you don't have to suffer anymore! I would say 80% shrugged and didn't believe it was possible. They literally dismissed it outright because their belief system wouldn't even allow the possibility to be true. That is the power of belief, identity, and the ego. You simply cannot have an experience you block from being true. No amount of evidence to the contrary can shake that.
If you identify with your illness or receive attention or benefit from it in any way, I predict your road to healing will be much longer and more complex- if it ever even happens at all. A lot of people who identify with their illness resign themselves to living that way and suffer, avoidably, for the rest of their life. This attachment to the false, limited self can even lead to death. The more attached you are to your condition the less chance of real healing you have.
There must be cracks in the ego to let the healing in.
People who come to me saying they want to heal but in a spirit of skepticism, disbelief, and resistance don’t get the results they’re after. Their healing takes longer. No judgement, it’s just something I’ve noticed. The pace of healing is entirely up to you and what you’re comfortable with experiencing at this time. That’s the great thing about it- you can go as fast or slow as you want. I’ve seen people who are ready to heal do it in an INSTANT. I’ve seen people’s entire lives transform in the span of minutes.
This is why a lot of times people don’t heal until they've hit rock bottom. Whether it’s addiction or cancer, hitting rock bottom is a very scary wake up call that forces us to do, be, and try things we never would have otherwise.
Perhaps it is not so much the physical cure that heals but the willingness to receive it. Perhaps the mind plays a role in all this as the gatekeeper. The real question is not if you WANT to (everyone thinks they want to heal), the real question is ‘Are you READY’?
These are the real questions when it comes to assessing how ready and willing you are to Heal. Not everyone is and that’s perfectly ok. Your psyche has the perfect timing for you all laid out and I trust your inner wisdom. There’s a genius to the timing of your healing journey that is miraculous and perfect.
I find when people come to me ready to heal, my job is easy. Without resistance, healing happens very quickly.
Signs you are not ready to heal:
Signs you are ready to heal:
I’ve seen people dance around their core wounds for decades. I was this person. My actual healing took minutes maybe, but it took me decades to prepare to be actually ready to heal. Before that point I was coming up with endless distractions to keep from confronting my inner self and kept self avoiding until I reached rock bottom. It took rock bottom to shake me out of my trance and decide to self partner and commit to a sincere and honest path of healing. Hopefully you can avoid all the drama and realize that your healing is available to you when YOU DECIDE YOU’RE READY. Nothing can stop the person who’s decided. It is basically already done. Life will show up with the perfect solution once it’s decided. I have seen it over and over and over again. Beyond a shadow of a doubt.
The great news is the Emotion Code can help you be more READY to heal. We can remove the trauma that made you stop trusting your body and inner healer in the first place. We can reprogram limiting beliefs so you can allow yourself to experience new possibilities and less defensiveness and excuses. We can affirm Who You Really Are by focusing on attuning to possibilities instead of limitations.
You have to give yourself permission though.
You have to let the light get into the cracks.
I am here for you when you’re READY.
You are the gatekeeper, you get to decide.
This is your journey, your story.
What will you do with your one beautiful life?
Let me know in the comments what you were able to heal once you decided you were ready!
Carolyn Cat Craft
Emotion Code Practitioner